Habits of High-Value Women: 14 Habits to Become More Elegant, Classy and Feminine

 

When I first started out on my journey to become a high-value woman who oozes elegance, class and femininity, I made a list of all the goals I wanted to achieve so I could become her. 

 

Sounds logical right?  

 

Well actually, I’ve come to realise that this wasn’t the best thing to do!

 

Now, this might not be a revelation to some, but for me, it really was one of those ‘aha’ or light bulb moments. 

 

 

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For years, I’d set goals including, have a manicure, upgrade my wardrobe or improve my financial situation.  Whilst these are good goals to have and they certainly brought me closer to the woman I wanted to become, once I’d had that manicure, a week later I’d need another, so I was no longer the high-value woman I wanted to be (in my head).

 

I agree, this all sounds so obvious when you say (or read) it out loud. 

 

What I’ve come to realise is that the whole transformation, levelling up and becoming an elegant and feminine woman is a process.  There’s no end date or bucket list of things to accomplish.  It’s a way of life.

 

Of course, there’ll be things you can implement and over time you’ll look back and it’ll be as though you’ve reached the goal, but the truth is the goal will then forever be in maintenance mode. I can’t imagine anyone would upgrade their physical appearance, personal characteristics, financial position or their career to then sit back and say, “Well now that’s achieved, I can go back to doing what I was before”. 

 

That’s why in this blog post, I’m not going to share any goals to set to be a high-value woman of elegance and class. 

 

But, what I am going to share are the habits and routines that I’ve adopted so I can be the best version of me. 

 

I hope you also find them useful and that they will help you in your levelling up journey to become a high-value woman. 

 

 

Acting ‘as if’

 

Since I’ve realised that becoming a high-value woman will be a process, with no definitive end date, I can in fact achieve my goal of becoming that high-value woman right now. And so can you! 

 

All you need to do is decide right now that’s who you are and how you want the world to see you. 

 

Sure, you might not quite be there yet and you might argue that because you haven’t got an elegant and classy wardrobe or because your finances are all over the place that you couldn’t possibly be high-value. Well, I’m here to tell you that if it’s all a process with no end date, then that’s all fine! 

 

Part of the process is that you’ll need to do certain things every day, week or month to become this new you.  

 

All you need to do is act as if you’re the high-value woman you wish to be. Make every decision and alter every habit from now to one that will bring you closer to becoming the elegant, classy and feminine woman you desire to be.

 

By practicing this everyday, it’ll soon become second nature and you will be the high-value woman in no time!

 

 

Successfully Implementing New Habits

 

If you’ve read Atomic Habits you’ll understand that to successfully implement new habits, the key is to start small and build upon other habits and routines you already have in place.

 

For example, if the high-value woman inside of you has a solid skincare routine, you’d then build upon your normal routine of washing your face by adding the extra step of moisturising. 

 

Another habit might be that on the day when you receive your pay check, you log into your online banking, assess your financial situation and transfer money into your savings account. 

 

There is of course more to starting new habits and breaking bad ones in terms of making the habit obvious, attractive, easy and satisfying. But I won’t go into detail as the author does an amazing job of explaining everything that if I try to repeat it, I’ll probably end up butchering it! So if you’d prefer to hear all about habits from the expert – click here!

 

14 Habits of High-Value Women

 

You can implement these all at once or a few at a time, it’s really up to you. 

 

For me, I like to build upon existing habits and alter my routines slightly to fit anything new into my daily life.  I try to include as many as I can each day, but I’ll have certain weeks where I focus maybe on something slightly harder for me to make second nature. 

 

So, the habits of high-value women are that they:

 

1. Use the correct etiquette and manners in all situations
2. Keep up their physical appearance: skincare, hair, lashes, brows, teeth, nails, body-care etc
3. Exercise regularly (but something they enjoy doing not as a chore)
4. Save money from every pay check they receive 
5. Learn something new each day from a book, video, online course etc
6. Eat organic and nutritious foods, daily
7. Spend time on a morning being put together for the day ahead including hair and makeup 
8. Work on their career / business goals 
9. Assess their financial situation and how they can build their wealth
10. Have a regular date night with their beau 
11. Practice being softly spoken and don’t swear
12. Enjoy a luxurious morning and evening routine
13. Take time out of their day to relax and unwind 
14. Wake up early to enjoy the morning and journal 

 

So that’s it, implement these 14 habits that all high-value women practice everyday to become the next! 

 

14 Habits of High-Value Women that You Can Start Today!